The Spaniards are known for their skills in flirting, so why use an online dating site? Simple: you have even more people to flirt with!
If you rely on friends and your local bar to provide you with dates, the amount of new singles you meet is limited. If, on the other hand, you join a Spanish dating site, you can meet thousands of singles in your city and beyond. If you live in a smaller town this is a huge plus.
If you happen to be busy with work and social events where you don’t meet a lot of singles, then online dating also opens up doors as you can find someone to flirt with from the comfort of your own house. Then meet them when it suits your schedule.
What are you waiting for? Join a Flirt.com today to meet thousands of Spanish singles.
The easiest way to catch someone’s attention online is to create a great online dating profile. Write something interesting and fun about yourself that reveals enough about who you are to make people curious for more. Then upload some great pictures, showing off what you love in life. It’s always great to show how passionate you are about various things. Positivity goes a long way when it comes to attraction.
Another thing about positivity: Spanish singles, like singles anywhere, prefer not to hear about your ex, what you hate in life, and why you don’t want to date selfish, pompous liars. Rather state what you want for the future, what you love in life and what you are looking for in a date.
Spanish personals used to be those boring little ads in the newspapers - that’s the kind of writing you want to avoid. Look through other people’s profiles and see how they’ve written them. Find inspiration and go write your own, or get friends to help out.
When you find someone from Spain who catches your eye on our dating site - get in touch with them. So let’s give a few examples of great messages.
Hi,
I came across your profile and really like it! :)
I see you traveled to Egypt - me too! I especially enjoyed the tales surrounding the pyramids and getting lost in the souks in Cairo. But there’s just so much to love in Egypt, isn’t there?!
Shoot me a message if you feel like grabbing a coffee some day - would love to get to know you!
Have a great Friday,
M
Hey,
Your profile made me smile; you’re cute, sophisticated and clearly have a great sense of humour. Oh, and you look great riding a camel ;) Nice shots of Egypt!
Think you can charm me in real life too? ;)
Would love to hear from you!
See it this way: Singles from Spain online want the same as offline - fun, respectful, interesting and flirtatious conversations. Start slowly and build things up. Nothing too steamy or too deep in a first message, as it will put people off.
Once you find someone you have chemistry with on a Spanish dating website it’s time to take it offline; the sooner the better. It prevents you of building a false image of what they’re like.
On a first date you have no idea if they will become your friend, your date, or someone you don’t click with. Don’t have too high expectations. Just go out to have fun and meet someone new.
For a first date have a coffee, or grab a drink. Chat for a while, then part ways. The real first date will be your second meeting. Then you can do something more exciting and fun. And bear in mind your idea of them will likely change the second time you meet, so try to meet someone twice before making up your mind about them.
Being relaxed is really the most important thing when meeting someone you’ve met through a Spanish dating site. Really look them in the eye and listen to what they say. Don’t get busy worrying about what they think about you. Relax. Enjoy. Focus on them, not you.
