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Home / Dating Questions / How to be a dom in bdsm

Know How to Be a Dom in BDSM

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Answered by dating expert Alex Reddle

A dom is always in control. Taking control means you are responsible for the quality of sex with your partner. Your partner can just submit to what you are doing. The only thing is that you have to make her feel that she has all the powers. So, give it to her when she wants! You have to be confident and do no mistakes, have an open dialogue with your partner and be honest – honest to self and to your sub. Most importantly, be a gentleman first and let her feel that everything is just about her. Show no regrets about that!

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Answered by dating expert Sandra Baker

They say that confidence is a key to everything so it should be no surprise to you that being dominant is largely related to the practice of you establishing your comfort levels as a Dom. You have to be willing to be demanding while being seen as a form of authority. You have to be willing to listen to your sub, not take things too far, and be willing to engage in aftercare for your sub when things are finished. You are not there to be mean to them. You are there to give them what they want, just on your timeframe and not necessarily theirs. Learn more about being a sub by interacting with practicing ones on dating sites or at local clubs.

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